Yesterday's Rax cannot handle today's task and achieve the goal I set previously. It is a process to talk to broader audience and yesterday's Rax. Writing is a way out to think slowly and record what I have been thinking on a deeper level. One book a day is a great service to keep myself explore a different area. It is a way to learn history and become faster and more quality thinker. Reading is a way in to talk to or learn from the greatest author at all time. The product has been selling some time now. I have been always thinking about creating a product or service that can passively generate income. But this career is definitely creating more value than staying within a bigger company. It may even nothing to do with anything I know about today. It may be investment related or risk related. I will tell myself:ħ years from now, I will probably back to China. But If I am only allowing to talk about one thing to a 10 year younger me. His answer didn't freak out on things and have career plan ready. I asked my colleague a question that what are you going to talk to a 10-year younger you about things. Hopefully, 7 years from now, I have a more meaningful relationship than I do now. They should have a good relationship with their wife or husband. I learned a lot from friends or open-minded new friends. If we can talk in face to face, that is even better. The time will be around a special event, their birthday, or public holiday. I will find those friends that I can talk to at least once a year asking them how they are doing and what they are doing about their life, work, and interest. What I do is more important than what I think. She will only be with me another 10 years or so until she meets her future boy friend or husband. Reading, exercising, spending time with her to cultivate her is important. It is really easy to tell her what to do and what not to do. They will shift more their attention on my 8-year-old daughter. But I will not the center of their focus. Talking to experts can save me time and show my respect. For example, I can ask my them about dealing with colleagues, cooking receipts, teaching principles, and managing company. Because each one of them is good at something that I can actually learn a lot from. Parents may think their glory days are better than now or in the next 7 years. The moment I change my attitude from debating or discussing to asking questions or trying to learn from their expertise is key to parents' happiness. Why? I not only wasting time on discussing a useless topic, they also feel no respect from me. What is worse, the benefit of debating or discussing is close to negative. The benefit of discussing and debating is minimum. We have been discussing and even debating some topics. They are amazing and I have a lot thing can learn from them. I have been living with my in-law for almost a year now. How was their health doing? Just to keep a closer eye their body health. After talking about us, I should ask how they have been working on. I need to initiate the conversation with them about how well my daughter is doing and how my wife and I have done throughout the period. It should not be too hard to keep them happy. Keeping touch with them weekly is a minimum requirement. They will have a lot of time in retirement. Parent and in-law will be retired by then. Learn as much as possible from parents and parents in-law Now, it is not even close to where I want to be. When I truly mastering turn the first principle into my blood, I will have a better connection feeling about other. It is my nature to priority myself rather her's. Having said that, it is important to consider her need before mine. Within the family relationship, my first principle is still going to the following. I guess my life will be looking into two aspects, meaningful relationship, and meaningful work. That is a really good question to ask me. I will be 36 years old and my daughter will turn 8 years old.
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